Flowers for the boys
The French call them boutonnière, Italians bottoniera, to us they are plain old buttonhole. But there’s nothing dull about them - a groom without a buttonhole is like a bride without a bouquet! And designing them is real joy.
This little floral touch to the groom’s suit is much more than just a flower – it’s a symbol of refinement, of everlasting love and of commitment. A custom dating back to medieval times when Knights were flowers of allegiance to differentiate themselves on the battlefield. (All that shiny armour was a bit confusing!)
Today buttonholes are usually worn by the groom, best men, ushers and father of the bride and groom. Elegant but simple they are a perfect finishing touch, giving a sense of style and continuity to the whole wedding party. You might not think there’s much choice but really anything goes! Usually an element of the bridal bouquet is picked up in the design – the colour, blooms or style.
The Groom’s buttonhole is usually a bit different to the rest – to ensure he stands out on his special day. It can be in tune with the design or completely unique – whichever best suits the personality. The best man may wear something similar but the ushers, page boys and family members usually wear a more pared down version.
Buttonholes are traditionally worn on the left lapel pinned to the back of the buttonhole of the man's suit jacket or tuxedo with the flowers facing upwards. Or try this - a fashion forward pocket square - Delicate flowers and buds sit along the top of the groom’s pocket.
And don’t worry if flowers are not your thing, or if you are allergic to them, there are many other choices - thistles, herbs, closed buds or silk flowers – all can easily be incorporated in the design to put your signature on the day.
Big thank you to the following photographers for the fab images,
Two-d Photography, Georgi Mabee Photography, Emily Little Wedding Photography, Ayelle Photography, Lina and Tom
